June 5, 2008

Muscles as Big as His Heart!



Last Sunday at dinner Damian told Carter that someone from our church was moving. Damian asked him if he would like to go with him to help this guy move his stuff. I hope I never forget the look on Carter’s face! Precious! He looked at me first, gauging to see if he had heard right, and then this smile started to creep higher and higher onto his cheeks. Too cute! We could both tell that he thought he was hot stuff! He whole heartedly agreed that he was old enough to be a big helper, and proceeded to demonstrate his strength by standing on his chair and flexing his bulging muscles!


Every morning this week he has asked, “Is today Thursday?” Convincing him to eat extra healthy this week has been so easy too. Anything to make his muscles bigger and stronger! After breakfast Carter asked Damian if he was ready to go, and I thought the discouraged look on his face would break my heart when Damian told him he had to wait until after dinner. He was a trooper for the wait though, and his enthusiasm never waned.


As soon as Damian walked in the door from work Carter helped him take off his shoes. He then raced into his closet to pick out Daddy’s moving clothes, a t-shirt and ‘slippery’ (mesh) shorts, so they could match. We plowed through dinner with the promise of bigger muscles and ice cream with dad after the move.


On Sunday the new Elders Quorum president asked if Carter could come into Priesthood during the announcements. He proceeded to spotlight Carter for being so willing to come and for all the help he was during the move. Carter just stood there trying not to smile but couldn’t help himself when he was awarded a big bag of M&Ms for his service!


We are amazed at how BIG Carter's heart must be and can't quite figure out how one so big could fit into his little body! He cares about everyone and tiptoes around quietly helping others in any way he can. We are so proud!


Disclaimer: Unfortunately, rarely does this helping include chores around the house.

June 4, 2008

sMeLL tHe cLEan!

Five things I love the smell of:

1.Rain
2.Damian wearing Eternity or Intimately Beckham
3. My kids wet clean hair when they get out of the shower
4. The coffee aisle in the grocery store- odd since I don't drink it
5.My tile floor after it has been mopped by someone else!


My whole house is clean today! Blessed day! Mitza is the closest thing I have ever seen to an angel…no fingerprints, no fringe from that blasted pillow on my couch, no dirty dishes, and no shame.


I wish! As grateful as I am to have someone come help me clean my house, why is attached with so much guilt? I don’t know what it is about saying I need help doing something that immediately brings on waves of frustration and inadequacy.

I just started having her come a couple of months ago, and it has been such a blessing! I feel like I have more time to spend with the kids and that it is one BIG thing I can take off my list for a few days. Not to mention, we can decrease the amount of child labor we have been forcing.



It doesn’t last, but it is amazing what it does for me to have the whole house clean at the same time!

Note to self
: I probably won’t be spoiled like this forever, so just sniff away!


Judge me if you want. Better yet, go find a house cleaner!

June 1, 2008

blog debut...


One of my new year’s resolutions since 2006 has been to start a blog. I am horrible about writing in a journal and keeping in touch with family and friends, so I was hoping this would be a good venue to do both. Well, here it is June of 2008 (right on time in my world), a year and a half since my cute sister created this blog for me…


I have been procrastinating my debut to the blogging world for two reasons:

1. technology is not my friend
2. i struggle with perfection


I have finally realized that I am not going to get any more perfect by not even trying to reach my goals or any more computer savvy by avoiding my computer. So, dang it, if life is going to pass me by I am going to do something to leave my mark, quirky and imperfect as it will and should be!


Simply jami: simply flawed, simply real, simply me.


Thanks Linds for the motivation and to Jen for the tutorials! You both are awesome!



So, here goes...